conflict

I had my first conflict with my Hostsister yesterday and I feel awful, even though I might even haven´t done such a bad mistake, I feel like I´m dying. Amber seems to be hurt because of something I said but since we are so different in our natures, I just don´t get her and don´t understand what exactly she´s upset about. Maybe it´s not even me. :/ Well, I hope I´ll find out.